It’s hard to be honest. To speak of our own weaknesses is against human nature. We always want to protect ourselves and control what others think of us.
Honesty is another one of those character traits that just can’t become rare
Confession is being honest with God and others about our failures, fear, inadequacies, and even sin.
Our culture does not want to appear vulnerable or weak. We care way too much what people think of us, and we even try and control their thought about us. We want to impress others, to be loved, and in doing the things that require this to happen to we are not true to ourselves or to them.
We live in a world where secrets and shadows are the norm. to be totally and honest with someone is a very special relationship. Priceless I would say.
We have learned to be dishonest, because we are all judgmental, and we expose others weaknesses for our gain. We are a dark bunch in that way.
Admitting fault is ever so difficult but a strong character link, — It is tough to say “I did it” “I was wrong” “I can’t do that” “I struggle with….” This all admits weakness? Maybe not, maybe this is admitting honesty which is humility, which is a godly attribute, the fruit of the Spirit, and an attribute of Christ.
When we practice confession as a discipline it shapes our heart, molds our spirit, and attracts Jesus. Confession is coming clean with the truth with God and others.
There is some wisdom here from Solomon
“He who conceals his transgressions will not prosper, But he who confesses and forsakes them will find compassion.” Proverbs 28.13
Confession is humility. and humility always attracts the Holy Spirit.
Unconfessed sin will harden our heart to sin, invite more and we may be in danger of straying away from the Lord. Sin separates, plain and simple. We have a promise and a wonderful invitation, to total forgiveness,
“If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. If we say that we have not sinned, we make Him a liar and His word is not in us.” (1 John 1:9–10, NASB95)
Go be free, confess, and enjoy the mercy and love of Jesus!