Yesterday, we moved most of the last of dad’s furniture from his house. We moved him to Temperance last October. He lived in that house almost 50 years. Of course, I grew up there. The old brick house on Gorham in Morenci holds a lot of memories,every room has a story, every part of the yard a chapter in childhood. I looked out the window to the hosue next door, where mom lived the last years of her life (yes you read correctly) Last Friday, my daughter graduated from college, my oldest son will graduate from high school in a couple weeks, our youngest will be a senior. Lots of change, more on the way. Most I celebrate with joy and parental pride for my kids.
What changes are you experiencing in life? Job? Family? Aging parents? Empty nest? Loved one called home? Health? Registering your baby for pre-school?
Change can be hard, and most people resist it. Here are some reasons why.
- We fear the unknown. We want to have control and we control the present. We think we have it mastered and we love the predictability. Change moves us into the unknown, which we can interpret unsafe, and our assumptions are usually wrong.
- We are comfortable in the present. Change rocks the boat. We want our lives to be consistent, routine, and the same.
- Our flesh, resists growing our faith stronger. Change requires more faith because we have topped our faith out in the present. We, for some dumb reason, mostly resist spiritual growth because it makes us go to uncomfortable places….the unknown future, or a new ministry, or a new season of life. Each change requires our trust in God to go deeper. Let’s not resist let’s embrace.
The danger of resisting change.
- You miss out on a chapter in your life that was meant to be. Don’t fear, the Lord never leave us! Don’t miss an opportunity to celebrate change.
- It happens anyhow and you live in denial, anger, sadness, or ambivalence. This will affect everyone around you and your most precious relationships.
- You hijack your future. Joy and contentment can be robbed from us as we look back with sadness at the change, and not forward with faith. How many people did not experience their future, as they stubbornly held on to the past.
- We can miss something special God has for us. He moves us forward through life, and He is there will his plan, power, and presence to guide us.
- Your faith become stagnate. Change grows us whether we like it or not. We learn the Lord is always with us. We sense his strength and courage. We learn to trust him deeper in the unknown. Don’t rob yourself the opportunity of having greater faith in the Lord.
In the changes of life remember Proverbs 3.5,6 and live in this truth.
5 Trust in the LORD with all your heart,
and do not lean on your own understanding.
6 In all your ways acknowledge him,
and he will make straight your paths.
The Holy Bible: English Standard Version. (2001). (Pr 3:5–6). Wheaton: Standard Bible Society.